Am I being over sensitive?
Aug. 15th, 2011 09:30 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
'Miracle Gay'. Not big and not clever. More immature and damaging, actually. If I thought it were a comment on how over the top the gay jokes are and the fact that it comes across as vaguely homophobic, then maybe. But I really don't get that feeling, I think it's more of the 'it's so gay' that's hurting young LGBT people so badly.
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Date: 2011-08-15 06:05 pm (UTC)I think that might be one of the reasons that even when the plots are goofy, I still watch it. Torchwood used to approach the issue in a similar fashion, with a side bar of ribbing now and then that was always playfully rude, allowing the characters to be who they are and if they like to kiss boys, girls, both, or what have you - who cares?
The bits of Miracle Day that I have watched seem to had lost their way by defining who someone is, purely based on who they sleep with, but then again, I haven't been too keen on how Jack is written in it anyway, he seems hollow, almost caricature-like.
I tried to give it a go, I really did, but the bi-polar attitude of the writing towards so many issues and the whole ovens in the camps (I am not even going to get started again on that one) just put me off. Throwing random sex scenes in the middle of it to try and "bring back the audience" really isn't helping matters.
As to the poster - *shrug* I think it was meant as a juvenile bit of silliness and no real harm intended. Who knows? Maybe GDL has a secret love of Rocky Horror and was bored.
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Date: 2011-08-15 06:07 pm (UTC)It's such a shame, I had reasonably high hopes given Jane Espenson's done so much of the writing.
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Date: 2011-08-15 06:24 pm (UTC)I like most of the folk over there, too, but there are a few people who immediately spin everything negatively no matter what. That happens everywhere, just observing that it's there, too. I'm not judging, and I'm not saying they're always wrong, but we do - as humans - seek out that which reinforces our POV. And if we can't find something that does explicitly, we'll take the implicit and shape it as needed.
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Date: 2011-08-15 06:30 pm (UTC)And there's a whole lot of gay folk who don't get it, either. Being a Kinsey 6 doesn't suddenly grant you understanding that no one else on the scale can have. The only thing that keeps me from flat out turning it off based just on the "gay" stuff is the fact that Jack Doesn't Care. And he usually just throws it back. If he were to start questioning himself, I'd probably throw something at the TV>
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Date: 2011-08-15 06:41 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-08-15 07:26 pm (UTC)However I found myself feeling very uncomfortable at the bullying of the air steward. Then the joke about Jack infecting people with gayness. Apart from anything else it's an incredibly dodgy joke after all the years of HIV and the stigma.
So I don't think you are being oversensitive about the way the show is, because I think it is homophobic, and one thing I can't bear is this argument that RTD can't be homophobic, it's crap, people from any group can still be prejudiced.
Don't forget in the first episode of DW with Chris Eccles, Rose says to the Doctor "you're so gay" as an insult. RTD wrote that line.
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Date: 2011-08-15 08:29 pm (UTC)As for explosions - Gwen with a rocket launcher? We all know RTD wishes he was Joss Whedon, but Buffy did it with much more style.
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Date: 2011-08-15 08:36 pm (UTC)ETA: OMG that sounded so patronising when I looked at it. It was supposed to be a 'dear' of affection.
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Date: 2011-08-15 08:39 pm (UTC)But it's the effect it's had on their fans that pissed me off most. I did not need people on my Facebook friends list using it as a pejorative, and I defintiely did not need to be told that it's not offensive, they just hate the show.
I should ETA my post, but I cannot brain.
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Date: 2011-08-15 09:02 pm (UTC)(It's also possible, and this is pure speculation, that because the inevitable 'cause' of the miracle is going to be Jack and something to do with his past lover, that it's clumsy wordplay spoiler on the plot.)
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Date: 2011-08-15 09:04 pm (UTC)One of my relatives who works in film, so has hundreds of friends, made a comment on his fb page that his wife, who has a different surname, disagreed with. Someone weighed in against her with all these personal comments, really insulting her clearly trying to ingratiate themselves with him. So their teenaged daughter went on and said "stop insulting my mother on my father's Facebook page" That really did make me laugh, people are just so unthinking when they get on to social media sometimes.
However despite the issue of people maybe being rude to you on your own Facebook page, I totally agree with the cringing at fans using this as some sort of solidarity against MD. GDL may even love MD, I'm sure it means nothing about that show at all. I hate the way some fans keep embarrassing themselves. From AGA T shirts, to those SIJ manifestos, it's just mortifying.
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Date: 2011-08-15 09:12 pm (UTC)If the miracle is because of Jack I will... write that fic where Gwen turns herself into a stick insect and lives out the rest of her life in a jar on Jack's desk. Jack has suffered more than enough already, considering we've only had four series.
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Date: 2011-08-15 09:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-08-15 09:53 pm (UTC)My son though is a cornerstone for me on the whole offence thing... he did not like the Twitter remarks that Dillon Casey made after his scenes with JB when I told him - THAT was offensive.
I thought the poster was funny. The constant 'gay' remarks and snide comments in MD are increasingly tiresome, unnecessary, sleazy and embarrassing. The first two series of TW never did that. JB never went on [and on] about his 'man on man' scenes.
I think that for Gareth, it was a bit of fun he just couldn't resist. There was not the same reaction to the first two series of TW; very little on the homophobic front and the relationship of CJ and Ianto was accepted without comment. I know that he and JB are [rightly] very proud of that.
I have seen most of GDL's con appearances on YouTube and he is diplomacy itself, he has never once made any inappropriate remark about the series, gave away plot lines, let on what was happenning, spoken only with praise of his co workers and writers, made his affection for JB quite clear - and yes, like Kai Owen, taken the piss at every opportunity - but with love and affection always. It is very much the British way. They were also on a high, we [Wales] had just beaten England at rugby...
As for TW:MD it is awful. Jack is a caricature of himself, Rex is an ignorant pig, Esther is beyond bad and Gwen just gets it all wrong per Gwen - so no change there.
And that "I can smell the queer" remark [from CoE] and Gwen's response, I am still totally horrified at HOW so wrong it was and on so many levels.