I'm quite a confrontational personality, not because I feel the need to attack or defend or anything, but because my brother and I fought constantly when we were growing up (still do) so I see argument as a healthy thing and a good way to communicate and share opinions, especially where there are differing opinions and a tension in the relationship (like there is between me and the brother).
Other people, of course, see me being confrontational and argumentative as me being... confrontational and argumentative.
Ah yes, tried a pocky_slash big_bang, great plot, but I can't wrap my head around Gwen being friends with a team member I can see her trying and possibly thinking that she's succeeded with Tosh and with S1 Ianto, because she seems like the person who'd drag you along to all sorts of things and never actually ask if you wanted to go or if you were enjoying yourself, and they wouldn't be the sort to tell her no. But I can't believe mutual relationships between them. Partly because they were friends in Adam, which I've always seen as a sort of reverse of everything. Jack and Ianto haven't been Weevil hunting for a long time, Owen's a geek, Tosh is a sultry fox, Gwen's forgotten Rhys, Ianto and Gwen are friends. There's definitely a pattern there.
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Date: 2010-12-28 06:59 am (UTC)Other people, of course, see me being confrontational and argumentative as me being... confrontational and argumentative.
Ah yes, tried a pocky_slash big_bang, great plot, but I can't wrap my head around Gwen being friends with a team member
I can see her trying and possibly thinking that she's succeeded with Tosh and with S1 Ianto, because she seems like the person who'd drag you along to all sorts of things and never actually ask if you wanted to go or if you were enjoying yourself, and they wouldn't be the sort to tell her no.
But I can't believe mutual relationships between them. Partly because they were friends in Adam, which I've always seen as a sort of reverse of everything. Jack and Ianto haven't been Weevil hunting for a long time, Owen's a geek, Tosh is a sultry fox, Gwen's forgotten Rhys, Ianto and Gwen are friends. There's definitely a pattern there.