People can disagree and have reasonable discussions. It does help if you've interacted with them before and they know your, you know, quirks. Taffy has liked Gwen as long as I've known her, and I thought her post was venting/rhetorical.

Just not sure how people think Ianto and Gwen are zero sum, as if his character is gone because hers isn't. Or assume that if someone likes Gwen that they don't like Ianto or Jack/Ianto. It's weird to me, but I ship everyone and like everyone so maybe I'm the weirdo.

I've been to an Ianto love party! For his birthday! With cake!